Birthday party Blues

I'm Singing the birthday party blues,
I don't want to clean up the birthday party mess, my kids second birthday party was today. there birthday was last monday but we are just now having a party,
my mom is in the hospital with Pnemonia AGAIN, she was just in there 2 months ago for the same thing.
I have been trying to get ahold of my ex and his girlfriend, they left my house to go back to VA last Tuesday but I have yet to hear from them. I'm worried. :(